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Kris Jackson's avatar

As a Scorpio, I’m always in the deep end of the conversational pool. In the past five years or so I’ve started reading more and more romance. I have enjoyed some of the same-sex stories, as they have been new to me sub-genres, and appreciate that these relationships are being explored. Because my degree is in English, I definitely used to have the idea that romance novels were subpar literature, but I am super happy to have dispelled that for myself. Favorite romance I’ve read in recent years is Emily Henry’s Book Lovers. I’d love to see more books with older (midlife and beyond) heroines. I’ve also enjoyed the “romantasy” books I’ve read, though some are miles better than others. Jasmine’s books are always fun. And I enjoy contemporary settings or fantasy settings over regency. I adored The Idea of You, despite all the criticism it got for being Harry Styles fanfic.

Best of luck with 831!

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Lynn Young's avatar

GRINNING ear to ear as I say, Thank You, Courtney! For this piece centering our pleasure, baby! As a sexuality educator for decades, I celebrate this fun move. Yasssss—to value, include, delight in, lean into all of who we are in these juicy lives—-which includes our energy, our sexuality (yes to real sex written and welcomed), our woven lives in and out of relationships. Oh—and extra credit for noticing that joy lives there! I’ve loved me a good romance over the years—-AND, always had this “ya but” guilty pleasure sort of tinge. Like I KNOW I love them. I KNOW they’re what I reach for sometimes. And yet—-ya know, sorta not “counting” them as legit reads. Or, ya know—sort of privately just enJOYing! What if we share the enjoying. Fling open all the portals and bodices! Unleashing women IS sacred work. Yesing the pleasure zone—-in all things—-that’s holy ground! I’m reminded of seeing Bobby McFerrin one time—newly guest artist in residence at the St. Paul Chamber Orchestra. He came onto stage—barefoot. He turned to us—-the perhaps stuffy chamber music goers—and said something like this. Oh YES. I love that you love chamber music. Me too. AND, it’s like you’re living in a mansion with SO many rooms and you just stay in one. Let’s play! And we did! So——as always, you’ve flung open a fresh zone. Blown open perspectives too small for us. That weren’t serving. And HERE we ARE—and my Big Fan book is already on its way to me! Mwah!!

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