End-of-year reflection questions - 2024
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Okay on to the meat and potatoes of the day…
Whether you’re just carving out some time to journal solo or gathering with some good people to reflect in community (you can print these out, tear them up, and throw them in a bowl), here are some prompts to help you along…
What art—movie, TV show, book, exhibit, podcast etc.—most shifted your reality this year? Which one gave you the most pleasure? Which one made you the most inspired to make art of your own?
What is something you did this year that, upon reflection, wasn’t yours to do? What can you learn from that?
Who was your biggest friend crush on this year?
What bit of nature meant the most to you this year? What more-than-human-world relationship did your nurture? (with a tree, an animal etc.)
What is something that has grown “normal” to you that you would like to see with new eyes in 2025?
When did you have the most fun this year?
In what part of your life might you declare bankruptcy and start over?
What would you prioritize next year if you stopped having an “after-life mentality,” as Oliver Burkeman puts it (i.e. that you are living for some future reward moment)?
Whose relationship to time do you admire most? How can you apply their mentality to your own life in the coming year?
Cristien Storm writes that “Boundaries are as much about saying yes as they are about saying no.” What did you say a wise no to this year? What is a full-throated yes that you want to say next year?
My dearest friend Kate Levitt and I co-facilitated an end-of-year reflection with our women’s group and she wrote these amazing additions that she said I could share:
What has been dormant this year that I'd like to awaken? How might I awaken or nurture this to grow?
What has overgrown this year that I'd like to put back to seed and/ or what have I been carrying? Is there anything I can lay down to rest?
What is something witchy or spiritual that I'd like to explore?
What kind of rest do I need most right now? (body, heart, mind, spirit, other)?
What can stillness bring me? How do I feel about stillness and why?
What awakens in darkness?
Who are what is asking to be honored at this moment? (consider self, community, planet, anything) How might I put some intention into that?
Add your answers to these questions or new questions of your own in comments. How will you be reflecting this year? What rituals do you have for taking stock of one year and preparing to begin the next one with some intention?